I'm beginning to see not what's been lost or what's missing, but what's been gained.
Your signature says a lot. This kind of realization was a turning point for me. It is hard to see it when we are in agonizing pain. We can often have a head-knowledge of it but cannot feel it on a day by day basis.
When the pain subsides and we gain a deeper understanding of appreciating what has been gained, the losses begin to fade.
