And I think the question is, is TOH doing it for herself because she wants to be helping, sees that its good to get out and do some serious manual labor. Or is the sole purpose to win back her H? Which would be the wrong reasons, in the long run.
For the record, if she is doing it for herself AND then second, doing it for her husband and her marriage, that is fabulous.
I wonder if her H thinks "She changed for now, but she'll change back". I know mine thought that, has said it to me.
