Jeff.. have you ever paid for any DB coaching? Its really excellent. I see you are stuck and dont know how to have "the talk" with her, and also, you dont know really how to validate without it sounding like you are just agreeing (and therefore, giving her more ammunition to not fix the M). I reckon a coach could really help you with those things?
How do you think your W feels about you being avoidant? Would she prefer you to storm in, sweep her up and demand that she talks to you!? It would be a 180 ! Lol
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
