ILF, we don't have anything in writing. Everything is verbal. It is working out so far. It has been hard for D7, though, so I worry about her. D11 is okay. It's hard to know what the right thing to do for D7 is. I don't think she goes through the missing for me as much as she does her mom. I do know that has a lot of bad mornings with the wife. Maybe once out of the week when I have her. I think she was just tired. She gets kinda cuckoo when she's tired.

It never sounds good for my homefront. She has made up her mind about things. She just hasn't filed anything. I can't win her back right now. I know that if anything is going to happen, its going to be a LONG time from now. I'm thinking it could be a couple years. Or some catastrophic event, like her getting sick again or something. Or me.

I'm pretty sure that the wife is not a vindictive person towards me. I think I can count on 50/50 split for the long term. Without a fight. Even if she does D me.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."