Well, who would have believed it Michelle!??? That rude guy who kept you waiting at his door whilst he was skypeing the immature slasher !? Ah, vindicated, she is no more. And now look at him! IMing you asking "how you doing". God its a wierd world isnt it, you just dont know whats round the corner.
And you are the sane one! You ought to go into Law or something...
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Michelle I just have to say that reading your thread is so inspirational! It really makes me see that things have a way of turning around when you least expect them too!
It is very interesting to me to see what you have been through since we "met". And I hope that everything works out just the way you want it...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
If you have left the door open to H, then the chit-chat is good stuff. As smart as you are, you realize that although he apologized, he ran away for SOME reason, and that PTSD stuff just doesn't heal overnight, but you knew that.
Today I have a long list of to-dos to tackle. But I slept well, so that helps. Then this afternoon I'll hit the gym. Haven't gone running since I got the flu last week, need to get my butt back in gear.
Got a call back this AM on my last batch of STD testing, everything still negative. So looks like I didn't end up with the HPV warts from H, or my body fought them off in between my abnormal pap last August and the last two rounds of testing. In either case, I am feeling more confident that I don't have anything, which is always nice.
I know any R would be a long road. With the issues involved, there is a lot he needs to do first, some of which he is doing. But all of which will take time. I will give him a little time though to see if he can catch up with me.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I like your plan with H... and yes, he does need to catch up! Its great that he's in C though, I'm sure that was a big step for him, being a guy and a young guy and in the armed forces too, so all credit to him for that at least.
Funny isnt it how so many of us have come to the end of our DBing in a way, at the same time? (as you are not so much, just being yourself?).. you, Kalni, me, Mishka, maybe even Lisa...
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I mean, they are! 
