RHW, Yeah, I agree with ya about the pina colata song. I have thought that before when I was first put through this torture. I guess it goes to show ya, how almost everyone ?'s relationships in their lives, were just the unfortunate buch that actually had our M's shaken up and sometimes broken for their ?ing.
Well, I wanted to just pop by and let ya know that we are on similar time frames. I am 1&1/2 years post bomb. However, we have only been peicing for the last 6 months and we are still not living together again.
This is so hard on me. I love him and was miserable with out him, but now that he is back - he is not the same person. My H's personality, goals, spending, habbits, attitudes, priorities, and freinds are all very different from what he was like for the 12 yrs pre-bomb.
My H now has a large drinking problem, and ditches me to go hang at bars alone or with his new young single buddies. It is so hard on me -with all that I have already been through (EA -stripper and all). I am often alone and crying and scared when he blows me off. But then the next time I see him he is always so loving or apologetic. So it strings me along.
Well, I am glad to see your almost at 2 yrs post bomb. How long have you been piecing for? TIPPER
