TOH, You really work your a** off around the farm. Do you truly love it? Or would you ultimately be happier if you guys sold it? Just wondering.
Nobody thinks you're pathetic and stupid. We've all been where you're at. We just don't like it that you're stuck there, cuz we know how much it sucks.
Working her a** off around the farm is a 180 for toh. Prior to this she did not help her H on the farm. Now she is and stepping outside her own lines of what she can do. I personally think it is wonderful of her to help her H but I am the minority with that opinion. I stick by it though because I know first hand what it takes to manage a place and how much helping hands are appreciated to get the work done. That could possibly be part of why her H thru HIS hands up and left, he was tired of shouldering the load without her help. He pulled a full time job plus ran a full time farm with no help from his W or kids. How would YOU feel while you worked your a** off and everyone SAT on theirs?
It's great you all have jumped in with things for toh to ponder. Keep her thinking!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
