It is the life she signed us all up for. Yet only she got what she wanted. Not me, nor my kids, nor our friends and families.
Dont look for justice in an unjust sitch.
Chaz,
You are right. I had to send my exW an e-mail about picking up yet more of her stuff... She complained.... I could not let het get away with it... I wrote the following:
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Well, you probably would have a hard time believing {new wife} and I put so much time, effort and money into the house. Saying it was a disaster when you left would not be an understatement. Both my mom and {new wife} were shocked. My mom asked, "{exW} left this mess for you to cleanup?" I said, "Yes." She just looked at me.
Anyway, the right thing would have been for us to clean up the mess we created together. However, I am at a point in my life where I realize many people choose to do what is easy instead of doing what is right. I no longer attempt to resist this. I simply accept that is the way it is.
Given all {new wife} and I had to do, I think you should be grateful all you need to do is drive across town a few times to pickup boxes. We have put many hours in sorting through the junk in the basement. I have carried out countless bags of trash. I cleaned up cat and rat crap. We have had the Vietnam Vets here six times. {new wife} even drove over to your house several times to drop boxes off there.
{new wife} has been a total blessing; she has been so patient and has worked so hard to get things squared away. I could not expect any more from her. That hard work really paid off; we sold the house in about two and half weeks. We are off to La Casa Grande (a Grande River by Engle Homes) in {nice housing development}; oddly enough, you and I looked at those homes after I had my jaw surgery in September 2006.
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
