{{{{Jgrind}}}}} we will have to wait for T2L to start newest thread. Her H stopped over yesterday -- looking forward to see how it went.
Txmom sorry to steal stich. Hope all is well with you. Let us know how you are doing
I hardly drink, I gave up most social drinking because my H had not drank for years so I tried to support that decision. Now that H is drinking again, he told me the reason he gave it up all those years ago is because "I convinced him he had a problem but he never had one -- I was in control again", so how does he explain with cracking up his car, passing out etc but I know the drinking will catch up with him soon since she is a big drinker also and in his apartment was about 6 bottles of hard liquor. He will not be able to keep up for too long. His father died of cirohoss of the liver and about 1/2 of his brother/sisters are raging alcoholics. I know with his D not speaking to him pretty soon he will be drinking out of depression.
yes I have been leading a solitary life. Wish you would join me in my walks. Very lonely. I go to the gym but do not have any good friends here. Only some work people but since we both work here I have no one to confide in. I go to a Catholic church and most of the activities are during the day when I am work.
I left a message for my H about OW phone call. I knew he would not call back about it. My guess he will ignore it because all they do is lie about the relationship to this day. I can't believe what a liar my H has become. Right now he is totally addicted to her. Even after the call to her yesterday, I know he was with her again last night. No effect on either of them. It is a struggle every day but it is good to have this board here. It is my sanity.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
