{{{morning faith}}} I see that T2L thread is locked, need for the next one to be set up. It looks like you are doing good. Detaching is very tough. Right now I have no choice because I do not think H will call D15 and that would be my only point of contact with him except at work which I am trying to avoid him totally. I know my H has a secret phone that I saw once. Even if your H met with the OW it does not seem on a regular basis. I know my H for the past week or so has been seeing the OW everynight.
Have you read surviving an affair --get it. It looks like you are filling the "love bank" right now. Book will go into more detail.
I almost dread the weekends because they are so lonely. My family/friends are almost 2000 miles away. I can't talk to anyone at work since we share the same friends. I have a few casual friends outside of work but not someone that I can just show up at their house for a cup of coffee type thing.
Most of my GAL are solitary -- walks on the beach and going to the gym. I am not interested in going with friends to the bars or having them trying to have me meet someone. I know in time I will find more things to do but what I am doing now is healthy and helping me to lose weight which is something I really needed to do so in one sense H did me a favor, since I have goals with that now and I am achieving them. H has noticed and mentions it everytime I see him. Him on the other hand looks like h3ll, bloated - not exercising, drinking like a fish. That is why I call him an alien. Pretty sad.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
