Well MWG if that is truly what you want to have happen then you can state that to your h.

He needs help! Not so sure, that pushing him away is the answer, but I do understand. The pressure can be too much at times.

He is not going to be able to love you until he can love himself.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"