Actually, I really think if he was somewhere else, it would force him to think what he has lost and what he is doing.

Where would it get me--it would give him a choice to make and it would not phase me in the least. Really, I am tired of putting up with this and the fact that he refuses to look for a job and drink all day is really too much for all of us.

No, he is not open to counseling or AD's at all.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19