I would say go with the flow..... Given how new your new R is..... I would just give it time.... I really think he is probably more afraid than you realize because of what happened last time and how he hurt you....
It seems odd... But, I have heard of so many couples getting back together... Living together.... and not really defining "what are we doing?"... They find their way back to happiness together...
The obstacle I see is you working totally through the pain he caused you.... Would you rather work through the pain WITH him or live the rest of your life WITHOUT him? As a hopeless romantic, I would sign up for working through the pain....
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
