It has been very helpful to read "Divorce Remedy" but I'm stuck as to effective use 180 behavior. H is in MLC and Michele talks a lot about how this is somewhat different - ie no demands. For the length of my marriage I have taken responsibility for finances - something my husband has always hated to do. 180 behavior would have me stop taking this responsibility but then would this place a demand on my husband? Just trying to understand this better.
