Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues

And it also has me still trying to square this with her other strong suggestion that I move back into the house until it does sell -- which I have yet to fathom why on earth she feels that is a good idea fro me or why she even cares -- what is her angle in all this? I don't get it.


Sorry about your job. I always like to be busy, but there are limits to that!!! You still need to take a vacation this year don't you??? Did you ever work that out?

Yeah, I think the housing market is really bad right now. They are offering houses in our area for about half of what they were a year or 2 ago. Of course, I think they were overpriced then, but crazy low prices around here now. My H wants to sell our house too, but we would have to sell it at a loss I suspect to sell it anytime in the near future, and the last thing we need is more debt now. Esp. when you are going to be renting, the worst time to sell a house for that is now I think. I would be hesitant to move into your house until it sells, b/c I think most people are either not buying houses now or trying to make a big profit off any desperate people out there.

Yeah, your W is a cut and runner, but with maturity you just can't do that kind of stuff. The D stuff is majorly stressful but I just know something that has to be gone through and I just try to focus on the kids. Karen


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