I think so. She's in a tough spot. If she relents on the restraining order, she looks bad. Like she went off for no reason. Also the order has been very effective in the custody battle. Remember she was exhibiting really poor behavior - drinking, infidelity in the house with the kids present, other stuff. It was not very motherly. so she used this order to effectively reverse the table.
I can only do so much with the legal system. I just keep thinking that I will love my kids and they will come to me of their own desire when they are old enough. my boys are already asking for more time with me. what the court decides is not how it will be. The kids will eventually make up their own minds, which is great. It's still sad for me, a big loss to not be with them on a daily basis. anyway....
Plans for the weekend!
This weekend I will be kidless. I've been wanting to ride my bike around an island nearby - so if the weather is nice I may do that. If the weather looks ugly I will go to the club instead.
Sunday morning there are some buddies planning a bike ride on some trails nearby, I will accompany them.
I will also see if I can get a buddy to go golfing with me.
also I have to go shopping for a desk for the kids, so they can do their homework at my place.
those are my hopes for this weekend. what about choo?
