I'm irritated that our savings are gone, the 401k is being eaten into, he's drained an account, our son's room and board isn't being taken care of, bills are piling up.. and this is with meliving on half his income which per CT law, the best I can hope for is 42% including child support after the divorce. I have the big house with its expenses, care of the children and the now neurotic dog.
I'm pissed that we've spent over $25K on nothing being done. That his bullheadedness has cost major bucks because of his need for secrecy. Add his paranoia, his choosing to see our daughter one hour a week at best and it's just annoying me.
I've binged on a box of Mallomars and probably have a killer sugar high going. He's fired a lawyer, hired a second more expensive one ($500 an hour) when a settlement hasn't even been discussed. The only thing we could squabble on is possessions since he doesn't want any physical custody of our daughter. He's been living with a woman he befriended and dated during our marriage since he abruptly left.
I spewed to a friend last night and I think I have remmants leaking out.
ARRRGGGHHHHHH....
Am I a weenie? Well heck.. if I am, pass the mustard!
