Did I ever mention that H was a work alcoholic and to me this was the cause of my emotional withdrawal from him. He always promised me more time soon. Soon never came. I waited 15 years that I can recall being unhappy. All I wanted was him.
no you never mentioned it. Too bad that you waited. Did you go out without him? Have fun without him? Anyway, that's what youshould be doing now.
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Hmmmm I am dbing very well. I am not sure yet if it is in the best interest of my M. Although H seems happy and more relaxed but other than the incident 3 days ago - nothing. I leave the calling up to him and today for instance he called once.
You're doing fine. you want it all to happen quickly, but it takes time. be patient. you just made love with your husband, that's positive. hang onto that for a while.
I have been out of the house, separated, for a year. My wife last touched me over 10 months ago. (it was a kiss on Christmas) These things take time.
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Tonight I have to consider if 'I am flogging a dead horse '
Would he ever change ?
you won't know unless you wait. Can you wait another day?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
