But I don't hear you saying that this opened new doors of hope in your relationship and you want to continue it or anything like that. I hear you saying that this led you to be able to close the necessary doors.
Yes, in my mind I don't think this has changed anything for either of us. I do feel some closure kind of getting out some of this stuff in a discussion way. We've mostly just argued about stuff before but that's never given me any feeling of peace or closure or anything. We were just kind of discussing, what we thought, about our M the last couple years and stuff like that, and a lot of it was the same, except that he thinks D will cure or fix him and has already worked for me, and I don't think D is the magic solution that he thinks it will be. Whether M or D, I think the only way to change is to really work on it, do therapy, or whatever. But I feel like he knows where I'm at and understands me at this point as much as he's capable, don't know why that feels good, but it does. I am nutty, thanks for understanding me!!! Karen
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