I know what you mean about the "I won't be out late". My stepfather is a drinker and for years, his earliest was midnight. My poor mother just lived with it. Still does, and that was/is her choice. He is getting older now and it isn't quite as late anymore. But she has made a nice life for herself and she takes what she gets from him.
Hope BG is ok. If anyone hears from her, give her my love and support.
Oh I know of this great Tiki bar in Sarasota we can all go to tonight. LOL.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.