Yeah I agree with Puppy on this one. No reason to scold you for the emails this time around. If they brought you some closure, then obviously this type of email conversations are just what you needed. However.....you now have no reason to ever "go there" again.

It just baffles me how our spouses (ex spouses) can twist things to try to make the divorce seem like the best thing for us. Wouldn't it be nice for them to acknowledge that D is an awful thing that can happen to anyone? But no...instead like to make it sound like they are helping you out by divorcing.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08