ITH it sounds like you have diverted the R talk very well so far. Only more more day and then you get to enjoy the drive!!
It sounds like your H is very confused about himself and what he wants. This being said I personally would not take anyting that he says personally. It seems he is so lost in his head that every few minutes what he thinks changes, ie. 'You are too controlling' then 'You are making me make the decisions and that bothers me'. Just go wih the flow!!
