It is a tough road and one I'm still on! I feel for you! Hang in there. The patience required is something I have to dig really deep for. Be strong!
Me:42 H:47 D:17 S:14 D:13 D:13 M: 18 years H filed 6/16/08 (I considered separation 5/08). D final 11/09. EH MLC/alcoholic. Not sure what the future holds..