You're so right with what you've said. I guess it was better for me to get this lesson in a relatively painless way on IM about something that was clearly not very important than to get it in person about something more critical. Now I know what I need to do over this weekend.
I am going to go 100% with his flow. I thought I had been, but I guess me offering anything seems like resistance. In fact even when he asked what I wanted to do this weekend, I put it back on him, "what would you like to do H?"
I SO wish H would get to the relationships section of the MLC book that he's reading. It says such positive things, and talks all about this idea of projection. I would love for him to entertain the thought that he is projecting...
Anyway I think things have smoothed over a bit now. We had a chat for about 10 minutes or so on politics, and this is one of his favorite topics.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
