I've learnt over the past few months to just agree if they offer something. you think you are being nice and making things 'easier' for them but in actual fact they just seem to get frustrated that we are 'making problems'. Bizarre hey?! Anyway, I would just say go with your h's flow for the moment. He seems to have a lot of frustrations (and i don't think they are all with you but he is projecting). Don't take it personally.
