SirPrizeMe, I totally agree w/ what Bworl wrote. "SOMETIMES moving on IS in the best interest of those who are being continually abused by a spouse's poor behavior."
And, what YOU said is very true, as well...it is an individual decision. I came from a m that was abusive in a lot of ways. Only at the time, I didn't see everything that was going on...I was TOO close to the sitch. Many people tried many times to point things out to me that weren't right. Now that I am away from that, I can see what others tried so hard to tell me.
No one here wants to see FIB and his w divorce. But, we DO want FIB to find some peace (and happiness) in his life. As my therapist told me once, HE will know when enough is enough.
Wasn't trying to argue w/ you SirPrizeMe.
FIB, we are here for you! Keep being the man that you are!
