I too am on the receiving end of an STD. After I found out about my Ws affair she has went in for an early pap smear. She comes to me a few days later and says she needs further test because the results were.....strange? It turns out she has HPV, one of the strains that causes cancer, and she has some precancerous cells. She goes back at the end of November to get checked again. Every yearly test she has been clean until this one...I remember the day we found out....we sat together and cried.
The bad part being a man is that there is no test for this. From her own admission we did have sex after they did....
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM