Thanks BM. I am grateful that D18 is calling me frequently as at least I know she is happy (apart from with her roomate).
Yesterday I was at uni. My head was full to bursting with all the new info I gained whilst there and all I really wanted to do was relax. No such thing happened. Things reached an almighty peak with D13 and I ended up spending the evening worrying where she was as she stormed off out. It was very stormy here last night. She did text me regularly (mostly to tell me how I qualify for the world's worst mum award) and eventually let me know she was at a friend's (although she wouldn't tell me which one) but she didn't come home until gone 10pm and so tempers were getting a bit thin by then. I didn't raise to the bait though. I just let her go up to her bedroom. She crashed about for a bit and then obviously got into bed so I did the same. I hope this will be the start of things getting better but I'm not convinced. Just as well H is not here (he is on holiday again) as I wouldn't have time to give him any attention anyway.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15