My own xH has said (when I tell him to be careful on the bike) "That would be easier for everyone", and has meant it. I don't think he would ever do anything, but the thought has been there for him. I am sure he has also had it about me as well.
The similarities are endless between these two guys, I tell ya! What is going on here, girlie??!!!
H has said the very exact same thing - word for word - and I have no doubt he's had those thoughts about me as well. Sometimes I honestly felt a little nervous.
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Funny, yesterday xH pointed out that I don't 'evict' him when I get home from work. He knows he is wrong. He said to wake him and he will leave. I shall do that from now on.
Always easier said than done, huh? I speak from experience.
But you can do this, and you will have the serenity you desire and deserve.
(((((((lwb)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell