FG you want things to go at your pace, not your h's. This is the hard part.

You have so many positives, but this is going to take way more time. Your h isn't anywhere near coming home at this point.

You need to love, but from a distance. That is the best advice I can give.

Live your life as if he is never coming home, but love him like you have never loved before!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"