Over active imagination = expectations!!! So it's good to keep them away. But it is sooo hard, join my boat! Lol.
I think the best thing is that you are AWARE of your thoughts now. Good and bad. Expectations or not. I am finding that to be the most important thing you can do with all of this DBing. To be aware of how you think, talk, and act. It's amazing how it is all connected.
So keep up the good work darling!
When are you gonna invite him out? I'm seriously dying to find out what happens next!
