I don't know what rock bottom looks like anymore. I hear so many things but I don't know.
What I can tell you is that my h is so miserable and when he is sitting with all of us, it is as if he begins to hang his head down as if he withdraws from everything and then perks up again, etc. This happens a lot in during the course of a conversation with me or me and the kids. I have noticed this a lot lately.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19