You're absolutely right, the first time the words "divorce now" were used, was by me.
But the point I am making still stands. bworl said sometimes moving on is in the best interests of those who are being continually abused by a spouses poor behavior. which is true. Abuse is no good. The question is, what is abuse and how much is too much?
and of course it is an individual decision. The most personal decision in the world.
