Hi Clayton, We all get tired. I think a vacation will be a good break for you. You & your W have probably had your walls up for a long time & you cannot expect them to fall down quickly. It takes alot of patience & understanding. I sure wish my H would have wanted to be friends w/me. Have you read the 5LL? Do you know what your W or your LL is? Maybe try a bit of that approach. Have done any fun activities together? Just some suggestions. Peace.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)