Hey JGrind, seems like you had a decent night also. Sometimes it is good to detach but when H wanted you to play it was good you joined in the fun. Amazing all the little things we took for granted like saying your name make such a difference.
I know that with H we stopped doing things and never seemed to go anywhere but movies. But with Ow they go out all of the time. But it is mostly at sport bars and H is drinking all of the time. I truly believe right now he is addicted to OW and the alcohol. I know it will take a long time for us to find each other again. My original goal is to have him back by next Christmas. Now I need to break down much smaller goals. I am detaching right now. After this past few days even though I miss him I do not want to see him at all. He looked bloated and terrible last night. I have been active at the gym and usually walk the beach most nights. I have been living a somewhat solitary life but I need to maybe check out that Divorce Cares long it is also about reconcillation. You are doing good.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
