I can see what you are saying I think there is a good chance her motivation is exactly that: dealing with her own depression and guilt.

I do think nothing will salve her conscious until she deals with her issues.

Thanks for your insight, Imageer!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God