Can I say that he is both? He is the man you loved, but he is flawed. He just needs help that you can't give him. He needs an IC and he needs to be serious.
You don't need to let the spark die. He is still the man you loved. It's in there.
Just don't let him drag you down. Okay? Remember he is drowning. Throw him an IC life preserver, but let go of the rope.
