I agree that this is a good thing but I might have a different inturpretation of her actions.

I wonder if she is looking to have your D come and live with her to relieve some of her guilt and depression. She might have felt that once she was D'ed she would feel better but she doesn't so now she is looking for the next fix to her problems. Ofcourse this won't help either. Nothing will until she looks at herself. My W has been doing this since day one. "It will all be better when...."

It is also possible that your D will reject her in one of 2 ways. She might refuse to live with her or she might go for a while and them want to come home. You have been the rock for your D since this happened, she might not give that up too easily. Also, as much as siblings fight with each other, it is my experience that they miss each other when separated.

whatever the reasons or the outcome, I still think this is a step in the right direction for you W.


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