Petite and big boobs and goes out drinking!!! That is tough to beat. The problem is your H should not have been in the situation where he would be exposed to this. He should have been home with you and the kids. I don't know BBJ, I get the feeling that you are starting to blame yourself for your husbands transgressions and it pains me to hear this. There is always a better looking, smarter, more fun to be around person out there somewhere....the key is to not put yourself in that position (what i refer to as the pool). Yeah so sometimes it's hot outside and you feel like a little dip will do you some good. Air conditioning and a cold shower also do the trick....I think I am losing it tonight.