I'm even more private in "real" life. Friends of mine would be shocked I'd post on these boards.
Let's just say my life got "complicated" for a while and I had to make a choice to do the right thing in a situation recently. It wasn't an easy choice and it sucks. Now I need to move on and refocus on myself and sticking to BBJ's road to happytown.
Unfortunately you don't always get what you want....