Perhaps I have not been following as much as I should...so please excuse me if I am being redundant. What is the speed bump you refer to and what is the right thing? A couple of days ago you mentionned that in your darkest days ...well you had some pretty dark thoughts....I would have never imagined that by your posts. I think I have been on board with you from pretty close to day 1....I am not sure that I get the whole Woog. I consider myself rather tight lipped in everyday life as it pertains to my personal life...a little less on these boards. You on the other hand...are very "tight lipped"on these boards. Are you the same in real life? Open up a little buddy.