New Here-From Newcomers- hoping for more input...

[optimistwife]

So far so good this week. H invited me to visit him last night (missed his call cause I was getting buff at the gym )

I did go over with some videos, and H said something like 'I needed my fried around'. That would be me! It is nice to not be the enemy... Yup- it ended up being a b**ty call.

It really feels a bit like dating. I think we may be slipping into the romance phase from friendship- and it may be a real slip this time, not a false step. I hope that is the case.

I do feel so lucky that we have been in constant contact the whole time since he's left. It has really helped give me the chance to DB. It is so hard to be supportive of them sometimes when you think about what your R is going through... But it really helps to be their cheerleader.

I so far have referred 2 other people to DB. I feel like our society has an epidemic.