Back to life, back to reality?

[optimistwife]

You are doing really well with this craziness. Stay strong with the IM, and don't get sucked into any serious talk. I hope you have a calm night and can be rested and fresh for your visit.

I AliSud may be right- you might be early in the process- sorry. I can't recall the start of your sitch. But my H first told me icky stuff back in sept 07, then again after x-mas, then again a month before he left. Lots of depressions stuff- unhappy in general, our m wasn't right- not sure what it was, I was too controlling, selfish, he may never be happy, etc.. etc...

but here I am 4 months into being on my own, more than a year of on and off badness prior- and I have hope (althought I have many days of not). My H seems to be coming back around... I think....

So hang in there. I think things can get better! You have to be the one not to give up though...