I too haven't posted for some time for the same reasons as you. It sounds as if your XW knows that you are the better option having seen your changes and that things with the OM didn't quite turn out the way she envisioned. There was no OM in my M but my single lifestyle certainly served as my addiction. I knew my place was with my husband but just didn't know how to go back or how to make it work. Also standing in my way was the fear that I just couldn't be the wife that he wanted or needed me to by and that it would be just a matter of time before I walked again.
There is a possibility that this is where she is at but it is a guessing game as to if she has the strength to deny the OM and come back. I hope that she does. I think you will know if it is meant to be a friendship or if this is a new start for you. Time will tell. Keep being her friend and your coach can tell you when it is time to step it up to romance.
All the best!
Posts Role Reversal(original) WAW now LBS part I & II WAW now LBS part III(current) T: 9 yrs M: 8 yrs WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07 LBS: Sep 07-pres.
