H tm me today during work asking "Why do you hate me sooooo much? Why can't you see I'm working on everything to make it better, including me and you?" I'm not sure where this came from. I replied "H, I have nothing but love for you. Can't you see that? I'm giving you your space to work things out and that is my gift to you." He said "I hate my life soooooo much! What is going on?!"

Now he emailed me asking if we can talk this weekend. Said it's nothing bad, but he wants to tell me what he's talking to IC about and about us. Oh boy.

Is he really hitting bottom here? Is this what it looks like?