Puppy, DB'ing also says not to snoop. But you speak of letting the WAS know that you don't live in an open marriage and I agree with that.
Here's my dilemma. I know that my W is on an online dating website. It's a different one now than before. She doesn't know that I know about this one. She's describing herself as single, het she's not. If I wasn't snooping, I wouldn't know these things; but if I expose then she knows I'm snooping.
Seems I'm in a quandry about what to do at this point.
