1.) getting over trauma caused by walking on eggshells
Solution:
1.) staying on program designed by DB counsel a.) space and time have been very difficult but good b.) when I initiate: confident, light, short & sweet c.) when 'A' initiates: same as above d.) if 'A' makes plans, be appreciative, but practice boundaries (respect is gained)
2.) as time passes, staying on program will strengthen both of us 3.) as time passes, making contact decisions will be easier
