Well....I made it through yesterday without too much crying...morning was bad but I kept very busy throughout the day...then my D21 asked if H said anything to me about the day..I told her no....she is really angry with him....she said she doesn't want to talk to him...I stay out of it....I did tell her that I know her dad loves her..
He didn't call son last night....he normally calls him around 8 but nothing last night...probably cause it was OW birthday and he might have thought I was going to answer so he didn't want to take the chance...I didn't expect him to either....
I did however wonder if I crossed his mind then thought how could I not....when I went to bed I was praying and just told God to touch his heart so that he felt that I was wishing him a Happy Anniversary.....then I went to sleep....didn't sleep well but....
I'm doing okay today...I am going out tonight....excited about that....me and the kids had a nice evening....I am blessed...
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Well all.....after son not hearing from H on Monday (our 24th anniversary, he didn't hear from him on Tuesday either...
I was out with a friend on Tuesday evening and went to the bathroom...H had texted me and told me that he tried to call son but lost signal...I didn't respond....
The next morning I got a text from H and everyday stuff along with is D21 home from Florida, again that he lost signal on phone call to son, that he was heading into 3 meeting and he would talk to me later....didn't respond....but later I texted him back to see if he could take my son on Saturday as I had no one else to watch him....I have a Halloween party to go to...he texted back 6 hours later and said it was fine.....called son 2 minutes after the text and talked about what he wanted to do on Saturday night.....I will be so mad if he takes him around OW again....what can I do?
And what's up with acting all normal again after our anniversary....like it's another day....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Gotcha on the "just another day." On my anniversary in May (back when H still lived in the house) he took D15 out of town to his best friend's son's graduation. No word about the day, nothing. I got emotional and shipped him an emotional e-mail later that night. No response, but weeks later he brought up the fact that the ONE time in months that he gets out and visits his friends, I lay a guilt trip on him. I guess it was just another day to him.
Hang in there. I'm slowly trying to set my mind on the fact that my marriage is over. I don't think I'll get him back at this point. I have my memories, and I'm trying to make a shift when remembering them. I'm trying to appreciate that they happened and be thankful for our children. I'm doing my best to stop wondering how he could see our past as miserable when I still have those memories.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
