Are you at that point where you just don't want to work on reconciling or are you just frustrated that you appear to be stuck in the dreaded friendzone?
I'm just getting too drained from all of this. I feel much better when I don't focus anything on her and just get on with living my own life (not sure if this is detaching or moving on).
She seems perfectly content with just being friends and meeting up for chit-chat. I don't need chit-chat. I have better things to do with my time then small talk about what she's doing with her workmates.
I'm all for unconditional love of my W...but when I get more emotional connection from people I only just met...then it makes me wonder why I keep trying.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats