Oh Karlah - It is wonderful. We went out again last night. Just a simple glass of wine, some appetizers and a chocolate dessert. She likes chocolate! A cozy booth, subdued lighting and it was raining outside. Oh I've got to tell you, this is fun.

We talked, we laughed and compared war stories, family stories, childhood stories and snuck the occasional passionate kiss. We also talked about relationship dynamics like the euphoria and infatuation stages and rebound dangers....and then we laughed some more.

Sometimes it is good to be less clinical and enjoy life and other people. Both of us got unceremoniously dumped by our respective spouses but we have a great deal more in common than that. She has been out of her relationship for 2 years and me since March 08. We both still love them but we were'nt missing them last night..and we probably won't tonight. LOL

Oh and I might add that older women absolutely rock

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final